This questioning should interpreted without bias.

Why do people talk to you first? Several possibilities.

1. You're a friend or family.

2. They are interested in you.

3. They like you.

4. They love you.

5. You have something in common with them.

6. You're famous/handsome/intelligent.

7. You're very social/easy to talk to.

And now, I try to apply these to myself. 

Why some people don't talk to me first.

1. Are they your friend or family?

They are.

2. Are they interested in you?

Most likely not.

3. They like you?

None that I know of.

4. They love you?

No.

5. Something in common?

Hardly.

6. Famous/handsome/intelligent?

None that I excel.

7. Are you anti social..?

Through people's eyes I am.

8. Can you change that?

I'm not sure.