A week had passed, finally my mum's back home from the hospital. Though it was just exhausting for traveling back and forth everyday, it's worth every energy used. And those times that i stayed home wasn't because i wanted to play games but i have work to be done, not really what should i call it even though i don't get paid for it so i just have to keep calling my video editing time work, even though i enjoy doing it, it's also a responsibility and the price i paid in the past.
People around me have told me to stop doing if it affects my life, nobody's forcing me, somehow i agree with them but then again, i don't easily give up. I still believe in such a way, i'm keeping contact with you all with at least some visible effort. I rarely or don't, say hi on the phone or when i'm online, some of it is because i not use to it but mostly i don't believe in it, or should i say i find this conversations to be empty and effortless.
I believe through "WHIC?", i can show my commitment and put effort into our friendship. Another reason for me to do is because i realized how hard is it for us to hang out during holidays. I don't know if anyone feels this way but i feel disappointed and sad when someone can't go to an event when they are invited. Saying sorry in the internet, again my personal opinion that it feels effortless to do, that's why i find ways to express myself, maybe an apology through sms or a call, or maybe a solid promise that next time i'll make it, anything to show that i'm doing my part to keep this friendship in existence.
I cannot stress how much this miscellaneous things would be important for any of us that is actually doing something to keep in contact, i only recently realized that some people including myself, had only waited for people to call us out. It's no wonder why things starts to feel one-sided. Maintaining friendship is all about teamwork, let's not forget about that. Do more than just ask if anyone's planning something for us to go, suggest some of you're own ideas, anything to make you feel you're being a part of this small group of ours.
But seems as though this is my final plead, for our classes are starting, some today, most on Monday. Another college semester starts, but for how long, as i have pointed to this matter a lot of times, not long, next year, all of us will together for only a little more than six months, our time together, gets lesser and lesser as we separate into smaller groups. I just wonder how friendships are maintained in this difficult times, if no one ever spoke of this, if no one ever made an effort, if i never written anything in my blog, if WHIC did not exist. Are we going to lose each other eventually?
Well i won't just sit around, never have been. When i commit to something, i'll see to it that it ends with every possible effort i had made. Abandoning is not an option. I won't record or take picture starting this semester, but it does not mean i have stopped making them episodes, maybe not considered WHIC anymore but there's still going to be something, and it's going to be better.
If you watched Yes Man(Starring Jim Carrey), you'd understand why out of 10 times of yes and no choices, 7/8 of them would be yes. Because if you give yourself less excuses, you'd be able to enjoy more with you're life. When i heard you saying no to me, i would say yes, yes as in i accept the fact you can't come and i at least appreciate the effort for informing me. Why there are 3/2 times i would say no? Because if i said 10 times of yes i would be lying. I would say no because i've given much considerations when things aren't going according to my plans.
Things that men nowadays lacks the most is being understanding about the people around them and having the balls to accept other people's views whether you like it or not. Especially opinions and feelings of the female gender, no matter how different we are, you do not despise or generalize according to genders. Men, being leaders first in the planet, will surely have the mindset that they are superior than women, this opinion i would have agreed to it, if i lived in the 15th century. Guys, we live in the 21st century, not when the times women don't even have simple rights to begin with. I find people that call themselves sexists are quite the hypocrites, their beliefs are always contradictory unless they are too blind to notice that survival, which is the first thing humans do, are dependent to each other, etc where do babies come from?
Ok, so you're saying you're sexist, but doesn't mean you want the opposite sex to go extinct. Then why all the hate when the power to survive and create future generations, is clearly equalized in dependency between each other? Unless we successfully created clones that won't be wiped out if a lethal disease spreads or in others, all of us becomes immune to any disease that maybe new, i don't see why us men are so superior, unless gay people starts to be able to make babies, i don't see a concrete reason to be a sexist.
Sure, extra rights are given to women now, so, is that affecting how you live now? Are you being bossed more by women then men, or would you rather have more men boss you around? Are you any poorer? Have your rights been reduced? Or maybe your just whining, perhaps? Either way, unless there are insurmountable facts that suggests men are superior and women has to be under-privileged, i'm saying, DON'T MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT.You have better things to do then getting angry towards women and being in disagreement in ideas and opinions. Stop thinking you're a sexist while you have boyfriends/girlfriends because that's just the ultimate hypocrisy you can get. Just accept life and frigging move on, it's that simple.
This is Jake, making sure there are less insensitive and temperamental people through words. If you got angry after reading this and are against what i say, be my guest and continue to stare angrily at your computer because you either don't understand the simple logic i've thought out or you just don't accept the fact that life still continues wonderfully even with this wasteful bickering of gender superiority. Accepting your point of view or not, won't solve a single problem if we still can't get along, so my acceptance would be meaningless at the end.
Still single, still liking every girl i see, and i loving it.
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