Please, as a friend.

Only some readers will know who i am talking about. After reading this, if you know who i am talking about, i encourage you to write your concerns to this person i'm talking about, by any methods, by any means necessary. It is best to show, we as friends, are clear that we mean no harm but to only to let the person know, our intentions is peaceful and only want the best for this friend.


I just wish you do not, in any way, do something that will be hurtful behind;
just be direct with how you feel towards this friend when your uneasy.


What i will write, does not concern one person only but it concerns to the general,
in some way you will feel that some similarities on the following points, are present within you too.

You know what i say,
will be about you.


Is life always hard?
Have you ever step down from being superior and look at things in a peaceful and equal way?


I'm afraid to talk to you.
Every word, every sentence i make,
i have to avoid making you angry.


But even so,
You're already angry with everyone,
who makes mistakes,
who has less understanding,
who has different views,
who has different ideas.


I couldn't ask you anything personal,
even though i'm concern about your well-being.
You never opened to others, yet others will open to you gladly.
Is that fair to friends, receiving but no giving?


I'm getting tired of this fear,
i'll never be able to understand,
because you don't let me.
Why do you mostly share feelings of anger and hatred to me?
Do you think i like receiving them?


To others, you may be the leader, the one who stands tall,
while others follow you.
To the closest of your friends, we know that's only the surface of you,
your despair and frustration; your sensitive side,
are just buried shallow enough for us to know it's there.


Even if people can not satisfy you're expectations, standards or rationality on things,
yes, they maybe wrong and cause consequences, but do they deserve to be hated?
Anyone would agree that when a person feels he/she is not in total agreement,
will talk about it to the person he/she is not in agreement.
Not keeping it from the person and tell it to somebody else,
it's unproductive, unnecessary and immoral.


Life is unpredictable, bad things happens, bad decisions are made.
If we accept this fact, we accept mistakes, which are steps to improve ourselves better.
So without mistakes, how is a person going to improve?
Human make mistakes, this is so common to everyone as we make mistakes in everything,
unless we have not done a single thing within our will.

This is a way of life, if you understand this, you would not get angry with what i have to say to you here,
you would understand that without putting on too much expectations on your friends, putting anger upon yourself and despise others so easily, life would seem so easier.
To be honest, i once was like you, yet what has it given me? i lost my trust with friends and eventually lost all of them, one of the reasons was because i expected too much in a friend.


If you continue to be like this, you're bound to lose more than you can chew.
I just hope you would be able to read this, because this is the only way i can carefully put my thoughts in a way no misunderstanding is present,
Have you always been like this? You've changed and not for the better.
As a friend and being me, i'm only willing to be neutral and able to advice through here because i'm no good with words in real life.








Please, as a friend.
I don't want to see you live your life this way,
i just wish you could enjoy more of your life and live with less conflicts.